Making men wear a simple chastity device or a urethral stimulating penis wand at the time of love-making can be an incredible turn on. It can also ensure that ‘selfish’ lovers please their partners to a satisfactory level before they themselves get release, or they might be denied that release. Many couples interested in chastity devices choose to invest in either a stainless steel chastity device or a plastic chastity device for the task. These may sound intense, but these two materials are the most common of chastity devices on the market today. Now before you start freaking out and thinking – why on earth would I lock my partner’s dick up – let’s look at some of the incredible advantages that the use of male chastity devices can bring.
Benefits On Female Supremacy And Male Chastity
Increased intimacy and wonderful sexual experience:Your man will no longer be able to climax without your approval, he will naturally start in a more caring, romantic and thoughtful manner in the hope to get some form of sexual reward. It can actually leave you amazed to know this but it will bring increased intimacy and foreplay to the table. It changes the nature of sex – sex is no longer simply about climax and getting to that point – it’s now about earning that climax and ensuring that it’s deserved. This can lead to passionate stroking and long lasting foreplay between the couple as both get drawn to their new erotic play. The sexual experience just gets better and better as chastity invariably causes men to hone their imaginative skills and please their partner more. Withholding the orgasm will make the eventual release an out of the world experience – people that practice edging will be very familiar with this form of sexual play. All it takes is orgasm denial, which is most effectively achieved through a cock cage, or similar device.
More Control For The ‘Dominant’ Partner:
It is generally considered that men's sexual drive and libido is higher than most women's. With forced male chastity, partners who had earlier failed to communicate effectively about their disinterest and caused sexual issues within the relationship can now gain an upper hand and surprisingly will get more turned on being in control and their men will love it.
Relaxation For The Man:
Older partners sometimes start losing their ability in performing the way they did when they were in their prime. This upsets a lot of people and can cause a lot of negative energy within the bedroom as they label themselves as a sexual failure. This can be particularly damaging for men as such a psychological blow can not only cause them to react negatively but it can actively affect their libido, erections and can result in a significant decrease in their sex drive causing them to abstain from sex within their relationship.
After all, most people don't discuss their private fantasies for fear of rejection and there are a lot of different types of fantasies out there. That's why there are some simple tips to introduce you to the male chastity lifestyle.
The basis of male chastity is that men cannot control themselves sexually. They think with their dick, and this can be detrimental for relationships where there is a disparity of sexual libido. Men can unwittingly be selfish – where they deem that sexual activity has ended with their own climax. This might not be an issue for partners who are attentive and will please their lover first, but for some men and their partners it can be an issue.
Plus, some men, especially ‘active’ men need to feel the notion that they are conquering their partner. I say active to also include gay males as well. There are men that love the thought of their partner surrendering to them and this is especially useful in order to maintain sexual interest and reaffirm a males ‘masculinity’. When first meeting someone special and during the dating period a man may seem intimate, sensitive and generally willing to make love in a manner that will please his new conquest.
However, reality sets in when you finally are hitched and he might turn out to be less interested in sexual intercourse and satisfying his lover and carry out such things as masturbate, looking at porno movies or even include extramarital relationships that may destroy an otherwise good romantic relationship. This is because some people are addicted to the hunt. They seek out the rush of endorphins and emotions that come with a new conquest and they are constantly on the prowl, so to speak. It isn’t that he loves the relationship any less, it’s just that the rush of emotions he felt when dating, are no longer there. The relationship has become one of comfort, rather than of sexual conquest. Again, I need to reiterate that this is not a negative thing, many people prefer this level of stability than the feelings of conquest and newness, but there are some people, both male and female, that like this initial rush.
It is because he feels like he has you; the particular joy connected with conquest is gone – you have become the conquered and are ‘less attractive’ to his competitive nature. When he is masturbating he is thinking of other girls and fantasizing being with them and not necessarily you. Maybe he is thinking about you in the form of fantasies that he has not yet communicated with you about.
Men's chastity improves everything. Within a forced chastity romantic relationship, use is made of a device to set his cock secure and locked, making it inaccessible to others. Consequently, he'll only accomplish a full erection or be able to make love at a time and place you choose. He has become the dominated and will love you more for it. Being dominated by their sexual partner is one of man’s top sexual fantasies. If the partner wants sex just release him from his male chastity and action will follow – but be sure to ensure that he earns his pleasure! There will be no more deceiving you sexually with him masturbating off to porn on the internet. You will never have to worry about him being enticed with another woman/man real, on film or online. His full sexual strength will be dedicated and given to the key holder.
Each and every time you open the chastity device he'll think that he has been reborn and therefore he'll always be attempting to conquer you again and again like when your relationship first started. He'll almost certainly carry out anything and everything to make sure you are satisfied as he will know that unless satisfied it may be a long time before he is let loose again. Watching porno’s with a chastity device is not a good idea as erections will generally hurt due to the restrictive nature of a man’s chastity device. We also advise that you keep an eye on him during the night – when erections become involuntary through dreams.
Enforcing chastity will almost certainly mean that he will become more intimate, passionate and romantic in the bedroom, it may even carry over to him helping more around the house, his life will be centred on pleasing you as you have robbed him or his manhood, his penis and he will do anything to earn his freedom. Sex will become completely centred on him pleasing you. You'll receive more oral sex and loving attention than you have ever had before. Night after night, he'll make love to you with his hands, mouth and soul. No longer will you have to worry about him giving you a quickie and then rolling over and falling asleep.
But, this is not a one-sided street. There are benefits for him as well. When he is released his orgasms will be more intense than ever before, his erections will be harder and his libido will be incredible.
One of the most thrilling ways for women to control her man's sexual desires and recapture the essence of love and passion of the bygone days is forced male chastity. However, if done carefully and the woman is successful in getting her man submit and embrace it, there are benefits galore. You must have heard of frequent tease and denial stories. To make this strict long-term orgasm denial work and manifold itself, it all lies with the woman. There are various techniques that are now employed to make male chastity work and indeed they are beneficial.
Fantasies invoke sufficient pleasure in an otherwise dull and drab lives. Male chastity devices are designed so that they will not break if they are tampered with. Most importantly - the locks are either numbered or keyed and the combination and key will only be with his spouse will hold. So literally his partner will hold the key to his desires.